ADDITIONAL READING
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Read and discuss which hand gestures people use in our country for
expressions below. Can you think of any other gestures that people
often use?
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Body Language
To communicate well with people of other countries, you must learn to speak
well, but speaking isn't everything. Some experts say only thirty percent of
communication comes from talking. Your gestures and other non-verbal actions
matter, too. But in different cultures, the same action can have different meanings.
When you have to meet someone from a different culture, be prepared. Do you
know what kind of gestures and customs are appropriate?
Let's look at shaking hands. North Americans like a firm handshake. But the
French prefer a light, short handshake. If you shake a French person's hand
the North American way, he or she may not like it. People in Eastern European
countries and some Latino cultures prefer shorter handshakes, too. Hugging
after shaking hands is also a common introduction there. Don't be surprized if
your friend may get off on the wrong foot.
Everyone around the world knows the "OK" hand gesture, don't they? But in
Spain, parts of South America, Eastern Europe, the OK sign is considered
rude. And if you go shopping in Japan, it means you'd like your change in coins
instead of bills. In France, making the OK sign means "zero" or that something
is worthless. So check before you use the OK sign to be sure it's OK!
Understanding even a few key gestures from different cultures can make you
a better communicator. So next time you travel, try being culturally sensitive.
Find out the local gesture and let your body talk.
by Kelly Garbo